Life is so much about being in a constant hurry to do more, go faster, and get to some other place as soon as possible. However, slowing down and observing the speed that is natural may be silent goodness. Living by the minute does not imply loss of ambition or purpose. It is just a matter of being able to breathe and learn the way. It appears that a great number of individuals have found that there is no need to rush all the time in order to make progress. It may be gradual and involve making little decisions and tolerance of the process. It is a lifestyle that might not be appropriate for all, yet it tends to leave room for tranquility, clarity, and a more profound sense of the things that happen in everyday life.
Coming to learn that life is not a race
Life is usually compared to a race, yet it may not necessarily operate in terms of a race. All people pass through various seasons and conditions. The daily efforts may also be valued by letting the personal timelines roll their own way, which will result in less pressure.
Releasing the constant comparisons
The act of comparing progress with others is an energy-draining act that may be carried out silently. Both alternatives have their own difficulties and benefits. Leaving the constant comparison could be a way of paying more attention to personal development (instead of comparing success with that of another person).
Savoring little victories along the way
The slightest of improvements can be overlooked. Spending a moment to acknowledge them may be inspirational and encouraging. These easy conquests tend to develop confidence gradually, developing a feeling that something good is the end result of the struggle.
Accepting that uncertainty is part of growth
When taking a step in the right direction, uncertainty usually comes in as a factor. None of the steps have obvious answers. Tolerance of a certain degree of not knowing can relieve the stress and allow learning, contemplation, and slow comprehension.
Trusting personal timing
Each person works at a different time. What is slow to one does not mean that it is steady to another. The belief in personal timing will promote the aspect of patience and lead to the need to push things to be achieved before the necessary time comes.
Favoring progress over perfection
Perfection may produce indecisiveness and slowness. In lieu of this, it might be possible to concentrate on progress to be able to move without being overly pressurized. Even little, bumpy steps can be taken and, in many ways, need to be made when things are not perfect, or wait until things are just right.
Being present in the everyday moments
Hurrying has a tendency to distract from the moment. Driving slowly can be useful to see the easy things that one does not normally notice. These are the moments that may cause calmness and make people remember that life is going on as well.
Goals need to evolve naturally
Occasionally, goals will change because of the realization. Flexibility can avoid conflicts of interest when interests change. To change a course is not necessarily to fail, but it may be learning and a greater understanding of what is really important.
Discovering peace in consistent effort
Speed is not a necessity of consistency. Even minor appearances can build momentum. These consistent practices can eventually instill trust and reliability in individual practices.
Being nice during the time of delay
Self-criticism may be precipitated by delays. Instead, when one responds kindly, this minimizes stress. To suffer oneself in slower intervals can be taken as a way of making the process less solemn and more accommodating.
Allowing life to unfold step by step
Everything is not always evident in life. Buddha says to go step by step, which could assist in avoiding overwhelm. This style gives space to adjust, learn, and take a peaceful development without being in a hurry to move on.
